Esther 1:9 Also Vashti the queen made a feast for the women in the royal house which belonged to king Ahasuerus. Esther 1:11 To bring Vashti the queen before the king with the crown royal, to shew the people and the princes her beauty: for she was fair to look on. Esther 1:12 But the queen Vashti refused to come at the king’s commandment by his chamberlains: therefore was the king very wroth, and his anger burned in him. Esther 2:17 And the king loved Esther above all the women, and she obtained grace and favor in his sight more than all the virgins; so that he set the royal crown upon her head, and made her queen instead of Vashti.
This is just but a story in the bible of a woman who saw that being submissive to his husband was too much, ignored the man but he was awarded sharing as the man welcomed a woman who was submissive the woman reached her comfort zone and because she was already a Queen she thought the king cant replace her but unexpected happened when she was unable to be a woman and decided to be a queen even to his husband.
Being loyal, respectful and being submissive as a woman don’t make you a fool but it makes you a wise woman and it keeps your family, a man don’t want a lot but he just want that and that’s the only natural remedy that can make a man be a man who will never think that he can get something else that’s better as he already has something better with him, the high time women decide to be submissive than start being submissive because of situation in the marriage or your family as it will not be from you but it will be a false one decide and be happy always.